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Gay Christian Online - Website for Gay Christians, Lesbian Christians, and those who support them.
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Gay Christian Online - How to Contact Me.
CONTACT ME
(E-Mail Me; Write If You Need Advice, or Have a Question.)

Gay Christian Online - Support This Website.
SUPPORT THIS WEBSITE
(Help and Support This Website)

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Gay Christian Online – How to Get an Article.
HOW TO GET
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Gay Christian Online - Welcome.
WELCOME
(Website Background - What It Is Not; Its Beginnings, and History, etc.)

Gay Christian Online - Introduction.
INTRODUCTION
(Website Purpose - What It Is; How It Can Help, etc.)

Gay Christian Online - Website Excerpts.
WEBSITE
EXCERPTS

(Overview of the Website - Brief Description of Each Website Article With Excerpts)

Gay Christian Online - A Page for Straight People.
A PAGE FOR
STRAIGHT PEOPLE

(How to Understand Gays and Lesbians, and Gay Christians; Stereotypes and Misunderstandings; Just What Is a Gay Christian; Silly False Fears; Our Common Goals and Bonds, etc.)

Gay Christian Online – The Cause of Homosexuality.
THE CAUSE
OF HOMOSEXUALITY

(What Makes Someone Gay or Lesbian; Theories and Causes Explored; The Real Cause Finally Revealed)

Gay Christian Online – The 'Spot the Gay' Game – How to Tell If Someone Is Gay or Lesbian.
THE
"SPOT THE GAY"
GAME

(How to Tell If Someone Is Gay or Lesbian)

Gay Christian Online - Author's Autobiography.
MY AUTO-
BIOGRAPHY

(My Life Story: My Youth; Years of Marriage and Religious Service; My Name Change; Coming Out; My Current Life; Monthly Life Updates, and "What Is the Deal With All the Pinocchio Stuff" Finally Explained, etc.)

Gay Christian Online - How to be a Gay Christian.
HOW TO BE
A GAY CHRISTIAN

(Despite What You've Been Told Otherwise - Scripture Study Without Debate: The Compatability of Sexuality with Christian Ethics and the Christian Lifestyle; the Law of Christ, the Law of Love, etc.)

Gay Christian Online - True verses False Christianity.
TRUE VERSES
FALSE CHRISTIANITY

(True Spirituality - Religion Verses Relationship, Grace Verses Law, Absolutism and Perfectionism Verses Normalness, etc.)

Gay Christian Online - Scriptures for the Gay Christian.
GOOD NEWS
(SCRIPTURES FOR THE GAY CHRISTIAN)

(Helpful Scriptures For Life Arranged By the Fruit of the Holy Spirit: Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Gentleness, Goodness, Faith, Meekness, Self-Control, etc.)

Gay Christian Online - Gay Christian Self-esteem.
HOW TO BE GAY!
GAY CHRISTIAN SELF-ESTEEM

(Build Healthy Gay and Lesbian Self-Esteem and Adult Development - The Need for a Firm Life Foundation in Jesus Christ; Sources and Effects of Dysfunction; False Guilt And Shame; Stereotypes and Misinformation About Homosexuality; False Coping Skills; Destructive and Dysfunctional Behaviors; Sexual Compulsions; Positive Self Development; Positive Relationship Development; Coming Out; Beyond Coming Out; Creating Healthy Choices and Behaviors; Inner-Healing; Self-Love; Self-Image; Self-Actualization; Following Christ; Christian Principles For Life, etc.)

Gay Christian Online - Gay Christian Advice and Information - Open Letters.
OPEN LETTERS
(Common Letters and My Replies, Among the Many Are: Is Being Gay Wrong?; Why Sodom Was Really Destroyed; The Role of Women, Cultural Stereotypes; Gay Stereotypes; Should I Come Out?; My Spouse Is Gay; Sex Outside of a Relationship; I'm a Battered Spouse; After a Relationship Ends; What If My Church Finds Out I Am Gay?; Does God Accept or Reject Me?; What About Pornography?; My Parent Is Gay; I Need Help Finding a Church; Is Masturbation OK?; The Role of Reproduction; I'm Gay and Married; Should I Leave My Church?; How to Understand Scriptures; Is Change Possible?; What Does Being Gay Mean?; A Religious Spouse Leaves; Being Abused in a Relationship; Defining Sexual Orientation; Accepting A Gay Or Lesbian Child, A Son Or Daughter, etc.)

Gay Christian Online - Gay Christian Life.
LIVING THE GAY CHRISTIAN LIFE
(Articles on - Salvation; Baptisms; Sanctification; True Holiness; The Law of Christ, the Law of Love; Sin; Forgiveness; Communion; Sacraments; Prayer; Fasting; How to Study Scripture; Giving; Witnessing; Serving; Christian Ethics; Making Friends; Healthy and Positive Relationships; Christian Sexual Ethics, etc.)

Gay Christian Online - Gay Christian Relationships.
GAY CHRISTIAN RELATIONSHIPS
(Developing Healthy Relationships - What if You are Gay And Married; Making Friends; Dating; Finding Good, Positive, and Healthy Relationships; Same-Sex Marriages and Partnerships, Gay Marriage, Lesbian Marriage; Guidelines for Choosing a Church; How to Recognize a Good Church; Being Gay in the Christian World; Being Christian in the Gay World, Defining the Gay and Christian Worlds; Defining Yourself, etc.)

Gay Christian Online – Same-Sex Marriage Ceremony.
SAME-SEX
MARRIAGE
CEREMONY

(Traditional Marriage Ceremony for Catholic or Protestant Christians; Format, Suggested Music, Scriptures, Text, etc.)

Gay Christian Online - Gay Christian Athletics.
GAY CHRISTIAN ATHLETICS
(How to Pass Gym Class - Proper Diet, Nutrition, Protein, Carbohydrates, Fat, and Fluids; Supplements; Sleep; Sex; Body Care - Bathing, Hair, Shaving, Teeth, Hands, Feet, Nails, Piercings, Tatoos, etc.; Clothes - Fashion Styles, Underwear, Shoes, Swimwear, Shirts, Pants, Skirts, Hats, etc.; Choosing and Using a Gym; the Locker Room; Gym Etiquette; Proper Use of Gym Equipment; Warm Up Tips; Descriptions of Individual Exercises for All Muscle Groups; Personalized Exercise Plans, etc.)

Gay Christian Online - Books for Gay and Lesbian Christians.
REFERENCED AND RECOMMENDED BOOKS
(Books on - Being Gay and Married; Coming Out; Straight Parents and Families of Gays; Gay Dating and Relationships; Gay Parenting; Gays and Christianity; Gay Youth; Children; Gay Medical, Health, and Sex; Gay Legal, Social, and Psychological Issues; the Lighter Side to Being Gay; Other Gay Topics; Recommended Christian, Fiction, and Other Style Books, etc.)

Gay Christian Online - Links for Gay and Lesbian Christians.
OTHER INTERNET LINKS
(Links to - Gay Accepting Churches, Denominations, Religious Support Groups, etc.; Gay Christian Resources; Coming Out Resources; Gay Educational and Library Resources; Information and Truth on Ex-Gay Ministries; Fun and Interesting Resources; HIV/AIDS; Medical, Sex, and Health Issues; Gay Literature and Poetry; Gay Magazines and News; Gay Organizations; Gay Relationship Resources; Gay Parenting Resources; Gay Youth Resources; Search Engines, etc.)

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Gay Christian Online - Website for Gay Christians, Lesbian Christians, and those who support them.
Celebrating Eighteen Years Of Ministry,
1990-2008
Over One Million Website Visitors

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For the curious...

irst, Gay Christian Online is not designed as a forum or place to debate the issue of Christianity and Homosexuality. If you are looking for this, you will not find it here. I leave that to those who are so called; my calling is to minister Christ, provide information and assistance to gays, lesbians, and those who love them.

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For those who object...

econd, if you think being gay is wrong, please respectfully and responsibly... pause... before you assume what I believe, say, and think, and embarrass yourself by writing to me with false assumptions, misconceptions, misinterpretations, stereotypes, and lists of Scripture verses; you might be surprised at what you find here. I think it only courteous and professionally responsible to take the time to read fully what is written, without pre-conceived assumptions about things believed or discussed herein. The purpose of this website is to minister to gays and lesbians. If you are not struggling with your sexuality or spirituality, not trying to support someone who is, then... thanks for visiting, you may e-mail if you so wish... but, I really need to devote my time and attention to those for whom I am called. So, as you move on elsewhere, may Jesus touch you with God's Love.

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For those who seek...

hird, if you are struggling with your spirituality, sexuality, or life in general, or you sincerely desire to understand, or assist some who is, then... "Welcome Home." It is my sincere prayer you find Love, Hope, information, assistance, and Peace through this ministry.

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Wow, this Website is big!

es, it has numerous articles on many different topics, spiritual, sexual, secular, social, for example, with over one hundred pages full of information and assistance. It is worth the time and effort to read them completely to fully understand and apply to your life. You can even acquire and receive them, and then read them offline. Also, you always have a personal touch... contact with me. Feel free to write me, anytime, too.

The pictures, artwork, and background music reflect my personal hobbies and interests, my love of antiques, Classical art and music, all things Walt Disney, especially the movie Pinocchio (memorabilia which I collect), support or bring emphasis to the topic of the article or page, and give the reader visual and listening interest while reading. I include changing artwork and background music to reflect various holidays and seasons. Photographs of myself and family are included to give you a face behind the words, and a personal touch. You may read more about myself, my background and interests, on the Autobiography pages of this website.


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ay Christian Online is designed to provide Love, acceptance, support; uplifting positive information, encouragement and affirmation for gays and lesbians who seek Jesus Christ, who desire spiritual guidance, growth, and maturity through Jesus Christ, and the skills and tools necessary to live a healthy, responsible, and positive life through Jesus Christ.

urther, it is designed to provide the Gay Christian, with Love, wisdom and counseling, encouragement and insight, support, and practical experiences on how to live the Christian life.

astly, it provides assistance and information for those who are trying to love and support gays and lesbians.

Peace and Hugs, Ben

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Gay Christian Online - Author's Gay Poetry.
MY POETRY
(I May Not Be the Best Poet, But I Try; and, Yes, Most of These Are Romantic)

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MY PICTURES
(Youth, Marriage & Ministry, Coming Out, Kilt, and Casual)

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WEBSITE PICTURES
(Collection of The Best - Classical Art and Black and White Photography)

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SURVEY FORM
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Music On This Page Music – When You Wish Upon A Star, Music By Leigh Harline, Words By Ned Washington. From the Movie Pinocchio. Copyright 1940 Bourne Co., and The Walt Disney Company.
Music On This Page January-February: My Funny Valentine Words & Music By Lorenz Hunt & Richard Rodgers. Performed By Nat King Cole, 19 ; or, When I Fall In Love, Words and Music By Edward Heyman & Victor Young. Performed By Nat King Cole, 19 ; or As Time Goes By, Words and Music By Herman Hupfield, 1931. Performed By Barbra Streisand, 19 ; or, Let Me Call You Sweetheart, Music and Words By Beth Stater Whitson & Leo Friedman, 1910. Performed By Bing Crosby, 1934; or, I Can’t Help Falling In Love With You, Words and Music By George Weiss, Hugo Peretti, & Luigi Creatore. Performed By Elvis Presley, 1962; or, Moonlight Serenade, Words By Mitchell Parish, Music By Glenn Miller. Performed By The Glenn Miller Orchestra, 1939; or, Little Brown Jug, Words and Music By Joseph Eastburn Winner, 1869. Performed By Glenn Miller and His Orchestra, 1939, 194?; or, I'll Be Seeing You, Words By Irving Kahal and Music By Sammy Fain, 1938. Performed By Glenn Miller and His Orchestra, 1939?; or, Boogie Woogie Bugle Boy, Words and Music By Don Raye & Hughie Prince, 1941. Performed By Glenn Miller and His Orchestra, 1944?; or, Sunrise Serenade, Words By Jack Lawrence and Music By Frankie Carle. Performed By Glenn Miller and His Orchestra, 1939; or, Serenade In Blue, Words and Music By Mack Gordon & Harry Warren. Performed By Glenn Miller and His Orchestra, 1942; or, Tuxedo Junction, Words By Buddy Feyne and Music By Erskine Hawkins. Performed By Glenn Miller and His Orchestra, 1939, 1940; or, Skylark, Words By Johnny Mercer and Music By Hoagy Carmichael, 1942. Performed By Glenn Miller and His Orchestra, 1942; or, Chattanooga Choo Choo, Words and Music By Mack Gordon & Harry Warren. Performed By Glenn Miller and His Orchestra, 1941; or, In The Mood, Words and Music By Joseph C. Garland & Andy Razaf, 1929. Performed By Glenn Miller and His Orchestra, 1940, 1943; or, Elmer's Tune, Words and Music By Elmer Albrecht, Sammy Gallop & Dick Jurgens. Performed By Glenn Miller and His Orchestra, 1939; or, Stardust, Words and Music By Hoagy Carmichael, 1927. Performed By Glenn Miller and His Orchestra, 1939; or, At Last, Words and Music By Mack Gordon & Harry Warren. Performed By Glenn Miller and His Orchestra, 1939; or, Perfidia, Words and Music By Alberto Domínguez. Performed By Glenn Miller and His Orchestra, 1939; or, A String Of Pearls, Words and Music By Eddie de Lange & Jerry Gray. Performed By Glenn Miller and His Orchestra, 1942; or, Moonlight Becomes You, Words By Johnny Burke and Music By James van Huesen, 1942. Performed By Glenn Miller and His Orchestra, 1942.
February-March: When Irish Eyes Are Smiling, Traditional Celtic. Performed By The Irish Tenors, 19 ; or, Danny Boy, Traditional Celtic. Performed By The Irish Tenors, 19 ; or, Danny Boy (Reprise), Traditional Celtic. Performed By The Irish Tenors, 19 ; or, Too Ra Loo Ra Loo Ral, Traditional Celtic. Performed By The Irish Tenors, 19 ; or, I’ll Take You Home Again, Kathleen, Traditional Celtic. Performed By The Irish Tenors, 19 ; or, Believe Me, Traditional Celtic. Performed By The Irish Tenors, 19 .
March-April: He’s Alive, Words and Music By Don Francisco. Copyright, 1977. Performed By Don Francisco; or, Easter Song (He Is Risen), Words and Music By Keith Green. Copyright, 1974. Performed By Keith Green, 1977; or, Easter Song (He Is Risen), Words and Music By Keith Green. Copyright, 1974. Performed By Glad, 1978; or, Easter Parade, Theme and Variations From Easter Parade, Music By Irving Berlin. Copyright Metro-Goldwyn-Mayer, Inc.
September-October: The Haunted Mansion, Theme and Variations From The Haunted Mansion, Music by X. Atencio, Buddy Baker, and John Debney. Copyright The Walt Disney Company; or, The Ghost and Mr. Chicken, Theme and Variations From The Ghost and Mr. Chicken, Music by Vic Mizzy, Also by Will Hudson, Irving Mills, and Mitchell Parish. Copyright Universal Studios; or, Edward Scissorhands, Theme and Variations From Edward Scissorhands, Music by Danny Elfman. Copyright Twentieth Century Fox, and Tim Burton; or, The Phantom of the Opera, Theme and Variations From The Phantom of the Opera, Music by Andrew Lloyd Webber. Copyright Andrew Lloyd Webber, and The Really Useful Group; or, The Nightmare Before Christmas, Theme and Variations From Tim Burton's The Nightmare Before Christmas, Music by Danny Elfman. Copyright Touchstone Pictures, The Walt Disney Company, and Tim Burton.
November: Now Thank We All Our God and King, Traditional Thanksgiving Hymn.
December: Christmas Time Is Here (Vocal Arrangement) – "A Charlie Brown Christmas", Vince Guaraldi Trio; Linus and Lucy – "A Charlie Brown Christmas", Vince Guaraldi Trio; I Want a Hippopotamus For Christmas, Gayla Peevey; White Christmas, Words and Music By Irving Berlin, Performed By Bing Crosby, Kim Darby Singers, and the John Scott Trotter Orchestra, 1942, 1947; The Christmas Song, Words and Music By Mel Torme and Bob Wells, Performed By Nat King Cole and the Nelson Riddle Orchestra, 1946, 1953, 1960, 1962; Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas, Words By Ralph Blane and Judy Garland, Music by Hugh Martin; Performed by Judy Garland, 1943, 1944.

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