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GAY CHRISTIAN
ONLINE INDEX
(Home)
CONTACT ME
(E-Mail Me; Write If You Need Advice, or Have a Question.)
WELCOME
(Website Background - What It Is Not; Its Beginnings, and History, etc.)
INTRODUCTION
(Website Purpose - What It Is; How It Can Help, etc.)
WEBSITE
EXCERPTS
(Overview of the Website - Brief Description of Each Website Article With Excerpts)
A PAGE FOR
STRAIGHT PEOPLE
(How to Understand Gays and Lesbians, and Gay Christians; Stereotypes and Misunderstandings; Just What Is a Gay Christian; Silly False Fears; Our Common Goals and Bonds, etc.)
THE CAUSE
OF HOMOSEXUALITY
(What Makes Someone Gay or Lesbian; Theories and Causes Explored; The Real Cause Finally Revealed)
THE
"SPOT THE GAY"
GAME
(How to Tell If "Someone" Is Gay or Lesbian - Game One; How to Tell If "You" Are Gay or Lesbian - Game Two)
MY AUTO-
BIOGRAPHY
(My Life Story: My Youth; Years of Marriage and Religious Service; My Name Change; Coming Out; My Current Life; Monthly Life Updates, and "What Is the Deal With All the Pinocchio Stuff" Finally Explained, etc.)
HOW TO BE
A GAY CHRISTIAN
(Despite What You've Been Told Otherwise - Scripture Study Without Debate: The Compatability of Sexuality with Christian Ethics and the Christian Lifestyle; the Law of Christ, the Law of Love, etc.)
TRUE VERSES
FALSE CHRISTIANITY
(True Spirituality - Religion Verses Relationship, Grace Verses Law, Absolutism and Perfectionism Verses Normalness, etc.)
GOOD NEWS
(SCRIPTURES FOR THE GAY CHRISTIAN)
(Helpful Scriptures For Life Arranged By the Fruit of the Holy Spirit: Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Gentleness, Goodness, Faith, Meekness, Self-Control, etc.)
HOW TO BE GAY!
GAY CHRISTIAN SELF-ESTEEM
(Build Healthy Gay and Lesbian Self-Esteem and Adult Development - The Need for a Firm Life Foundation in Jesus Christ; Sources and Effects of Dysfunction; False Guilt And Shame; Stereotypes and Misinformation About Homosexuality; False Coping Skills; Destructive and Dysfunctional Behaviors; Sexual Compulsions; Positive Self Development; Positive Relationship Development; Coming Out; Beyond Coming Out; Creating Healthy Choices and Behaviors; Inner-Healing; Self-Love; Self-Image; Self-Actualization; Following Christ; Christian Principles For Life, etc.)
OPEN LETTERS
(Common Letters and My Replies, Among the Many Are: Is Being Gay Wrong?; Why Sodom Was Really Destroyed; The Role of Women, Cultural Stereotypes; Gay Stereotypes; Should I Come Out?; My Spouse Is Gay; Sex Outside of a Relationship; I'm a Battered Spouse; After a Relationship Ends; What If My Church Finds Out I Am Gay?; Does God Accept or Reject Me?; What About Pornography?; My Parent Is Gay; I Need Help Finding a Church; Is Masturbation OK?; The Role of Reproduction; I'm Gay and Married; Should I Leave My Church?; How to Understand Scriptures; Is Change Possible?; What Does Being Gay Mean?, etc.)
LIVING THE GAY CHRISTIAN LIFE
(Articles on - Salvation; Baptisms; Sanctification; True Holiness; The Law of Christ, the Law of Love; Sin; Forgiveness; Communion; Sacraments; Prayer; Fasting; How to Study Scripture; Giving; Witnessing; Serving; Christian Ethics; Making Friends; Healthy and Positive Relationships; Christian Sexual Ethics; Following Jesus - The Challenges and Responsibilities of Relationship, etc.)
GAY CHRISTIAN RELATIONSHIPS
(Developing Healthy Relationships - What if You are Gay And Married; Making Friends; Dating; Finding Good, Positive, and Healthy Relationships; Guidelines for Choosing a Church; How to Recognize a Good Church; Being Gay in the Christian World; Being Christian in the Gay World, Defining the Gay and Christian Worlds; Defining Yourself; Following Jesus - The Challenges and Responsibilities of Relationship, etc.)
COMING OUT AS A GAY OR LESBIAN CHRISTIAN
(Coming Out Right - The Successful Coming Out Process; Defining Sexual Orientation; Misinformation About Sexual Orientation; The Consequences of Living in the Closet; Who You Are and Can Be; Coming Out Internally; Before Coming Out Externally; Coming Out Externally; Beyond Coming Out, etc.)
SAME-SEX
MARRIAGE
CEREMONY
(Traditional Marriage Ceremony for Catholic or Protestant Christians; Format, Suggested Music, Scriptures, Text, etc.)
GAY CHRISTIAN ATHLETICS
(How to Pass Gym Class - Proper Diet, Nutrition, Protein, Carbohydrates, Fat, and Fluids; Supplements; Sleep; Sex; Body Care - Bathing, Hair, Shaving, Teeth, Hands, Feet, Nails, Piercings, Tatoos, etc.; Clothes - Fashion Styles, Underwear, Shoes, Swimwear, Shirts, Pants, Skirts, Hats, etc.; Choosing and Using a Gym; the Locker Room; Gym Etiquette; Proper Use of Gym Equipment; Warm Up Tips; Descriptions of Individual Exercises for All Muscle Groups; Personalized Exercise Plans, etc.)
REFERENCED AND RECOMMENDED BOOKS
(Books on - Being Gay and Married; Coming Out; Straight Parents and Families of Gays; Gay Dating and Relationships; Gay Parenting; Gays and Christianity; Gay Youth; Children; Gay Medical, Health, and Sex; Gay Legal, Social, and Psychological Issues; the Lighter Side to Being Gay; Other Gay Topics; Recommended Christian, Fiction, and Other Style Books, etc.)
OTHER INTERNET LINKS
(Links to - Gay Accepting Churches, Denominations, Religious Support Groups, etc.; Gay Christian Resources; Coming Out Resources; Gay Educational and Library Resources; Information and Truth on Ex-Gay Ministries; Fun and Interesting Resources; HIV/AIDS; Medical, Sex, and Health Issues; Gay Literature and Poetry; Gay Magazines and News; Gay Organizations; Gay Relationship Resources; Gay Parenting Resources; Gay Youth Resources; Search Engines, etc.)
MY MUSIC
(Music Composed and Published by Me - Classical, Celtic. Samples May Be Found on Various Pages, too)
MY POETRY
(I May Not Be the Best Poet, But I Try; and, Yes, Most of These Are Romantic)
THANK YOU
(Thanks For Visiting My Website)
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nd Jesus said, A certain man had two sons: And the younger son said to his Father, "Father, give me my half of the inheritance now." And the Father divided everything equally to both sons.
A few days later the younger son took the money and his belongings, and traveled to a far country, and there wasted his money and everything on riotous, loose and unprotected living.
And after he spent and lost everything, there came a mighty famine in that land; and he suffered. And he went and hired himself out as a laborer to a citizen of that country; his employer sent him into his fields to feed swine.
And he was so hungry he wanted to eat the husks the pigs ate: but no one gave him anything.
And when he came to himself, he said, "How many hired servants of my Father's house have food enough to spare, and I perish with hunger! I will get up and go to my Father, and I will say to him, 'Father, I have sinned against heaven, and before you, And I am not worthy to be called your son anymore: make me like one of your hired servants.'" And he got up, and came to his Father.
 | ut when he was yet a great way off, his Father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and hugged him, and kissed him. |
And the son said to him, "Father, I have sinned against heaven and you, I am not worthy to be called your son anymore." But the Father said to his servants, "Bring me the best clothes, and put them on him; and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet: And bring the fatted calf, kill it; and let us eat, and be merry: For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found." And they began to be merry.
ow his elder son was in the field: and as he came and drew close to the house, he heard music and dancing. And he called one of the servants, and asked what these things meant. And the servant said to him, "Your brother has come home; and your Father has killed the fatted calf, because he has received him safe and sound."
And he was angry, and would not go in: therefore, his Father came out, and tried to reason with him. And he answered, saying to his Father, "Look, these many years I have served you, neither have I sinned nor disobeyed you: and yet you never gave me a goat, that I might make merry with my friends: But as soon as this son comes home, who has devoured your money with prostitutes and who knows what else, you go and kill for him the best calf."
And the Father said to him, "Son, you are always with me, and everything I have is your's. It was right we should make merry, and be glad: for your brother was dead, and is alive again; and was lost, and is found." Luke 15:11-32 King James Version (Paraphrased)
 | elcome. This website is designed to provide you with uplifting and encouraging information, support and Love. I am glad you are here. |
For many of you, you may be struggling with self-acceptance, your self-image, self-esteem, and self-love. You've experienced rejection, shunning, hatred, demeaning behaviors. You may have gotten yourself into cycles of self-hatred, shame and false guilt. You may have gotten yourself into cycles of self-abuse, engaging in activities or behaviors that are not the best for you. You may have desired to be someone or somewhere else.
Yet again, you may be someone who accepts yourself, but sometimes have doubts, fears and worries. You may struggle with life issues, how to deal with things, problems or events relating to self or other people.
Be at peace, my friend. Jesus loves you, God loves you, and so do I. There is hope, answers, love and truth in Jesus Christ. Jesus desires to help you, bless you, restore you, strengthen you, enlighten and encourage you. Jesus desires to give you forgiveness, new beginnings, new life, joy, faith, and peace. Jesus will never let you down; God's love never fails. God always has your best interests at heart, and God has a plan for your life, unique to you. You are special to Jesus.
Through this web site, I hope to offer you love and Jesus. I hope to offer you suggestions and ideas from a Christian foundation that can assist you, help you in your personal life. Through this web site I hope you will see Jesus, see how much He loves and accepts you.
This web site is here to serve you, and so am I. Besides this web site, you also have me, and you're always welcome to write me. I enjoy hearing from people, and I would look forward to hearing from you.
In other words, like in the story Jesus shared...
"Welcome Home, My Child, Welcome Home"
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